There are a lot of questions when it comes to dating. One of the most common questions revolves around the end goal of your search. What about those people who aren’t looking for a relationship, but would rather just have sex and enjoy themselves? There are a lot of solutions for those looking for simple, casual sex. Internet dating is probably one of the easiest places to start the search for the perfect bed-mate.
Go to your search engine and type in a phrase that covers what you are looking for. A phrase like “adult dating 4 fun” would cover it. Go through the various web pages that come up and find one that you feel comfortable with. If you aren’t sure which will work for you, then you have some big questions to ask yourself.
The first thing you should think about is the type of sex partner you want. Are you looking for sweet, normal sex or something a little kinky? Are you looking for an ongoing booty call or casual nsa encounters? Does body type and appearance matter to you in a big way? Lets address these questions and refine your search.
If you are looking for more normal sexual encounters, just look for a site that advertises to help you find sex partners. If you are looking for something more kinky, add words like fetish, kink, and bdsm to your search.
If you are looking for something ongoing, try sites that let you personalize your ad to include that information. Make sure you are very clear about what information you are willing to exchange. Some people are wary about giving out phone numbers and addresses to people they will not commit to. If you are looking for just a one time encounter, try going to a bar or placing a single ad, rather than a profile.
What you want in a sex partner matters too. Some people prefer slender, fit women. If that describes you, then put it clearly in your profile in a non-offensive way. If you prefer larger women, that should be included in your profile as well. Phrases can be added to specify the race, body type, hair color, and just about every other criteria you may have. The only thing you have to remember is that the more picky you are, the fewer responses you will have. Physical criteria is something each person has to assess, but remember that you are being judged by your looks as well.
That brings me to the final step in placing your ad, a picture. You will want to choose an honest, recent, and flattering photo to show. Honesty is important. Your date will not be impressed if they show up and see a person different from the photo online. Recent pictures are important too. You change as you get older, and people will notice if your photo is several years old. Lastly, you want to flatter yourself. Don’t post cell phone photos. Don’t post photos that show you drunk, eating, or in an unflattering light. Don’t use group photos either. It keeps you from having to identify which person you are.